Romantic Weekend Getaway in Lodi, California

As a frequent visitor of Lodi, hopeless romantic, and avid gluten-free foodie, I’ve curated this itinerary to help couples create unforgettable memories in one of California’s best hidden gems.

Lodi holds a special place in my heart. I first discovered its charm in 2016 and instantly felt at home. That love led me to become an Airbnb host with my former property, Lodi Landing, where I shared my passion for this incredible little town. Whether you're here for wine, nature, shopping, or just reconnecting with someone special, Lodi, California always finds a way to surprise and delight.

Friday Afternoon & Evening in Lodi California

Afternoon: Sip & Savor Romance at a Local Winery

Kick off your romantic weekend by arriving in Lodi early Friday afternoon. Most wineries close around 4 PM, so this is the perfect window to enjoy one or two tastings. Start at Mettler Family Vineyards, a family-owned spot with over 100 years of grape-growing tradition and a serene pond-side tasting room.

Next, head to Klinker Brick Winery, known for bold Zinfandels and an inviting patio. It’s a must-visit on my guide to the best Lodi wine-tasting spots.

For accommodations, I recommend finding a cozy Airbnb or booking a stay at the luxurious Wine & Roses Hotel.

Evening: Romantic Dinner in Downtown Lodi

After settling in, enjoy a delicious dinner at El Pazcifico Mexican Grill & Cantina, where the margaritas are strong and the service is top-notch. If you're exploring other options, browse my roundup of Lodi restaurants for more date-night gems.

Nightlife: Cheers to Love in Lodi

Wrap up your first night out with some fun local nightlife. Ollie’s Pub on School Street offers an authentic Irish pub vibe and features live music on weekends. If you're feeling fancy, dance the night away at Blend Ultra Lounge with bottle service and DJs. Or grab a classy cocktail at 20 North, a sophisticated spot with over 300 craft spirits.

Saturday in Lodi, CA

Morning: Coffee & Romantic Lodi Lake Views

Begin your morning at Java Stop, owned by my friend Kelly Brown. They have an extensive and fun coffee list, amazing gluten-free sourdough, and mouthwatering breakfast sandwiches and bagels.

After breakfast, head to Lodi Lake Park, where you can stroll scenic trails, spot local wildlife, or enjoy your breakfast lakeside at the picnic tables. In summer, rent paddleboards or canoes for some splashy fun.

Afternoon: Wine, Beer & Local Lodi Flavor

If you’re in the mood for more wine, Michael David Winery offers a full experience—wine tastings, an on-site café, a gourmet market, and a charming bakery.

More into brews? Head to Idol Beer Works, a modern brewery offering unique craft beers, food trucks, and a great outdoor space.

Looking for more things to do? Here’s a full list of fun Lodi activities perfect for your weekend.

Shopping: Local Gems with Heart

Lodi’s boutiques are a dream to explore. Start at The Local Collective, an artisan shop featuring handmade goods and rotating vendor pop-ups. It's also the brick-and-mortar home of Her Pretty Things, a beautifully curated clothing shop run by Jennifer Pratt, who has a deep passion for empowering women locally and globally through her work.

For vintage treasure hunters, head to Lodi Junction, a fun and eclectic department-style thrift store where you never know what gems you'll uncover.

Evening: Fine Dining and Date Night Vibes

After a little rest and a wardrobe refresh (don’t forget to consult my wine country packing list), treat yourselves to a romantic dinner.

Towne House Restaurant at Wine & Roses is a stunning venue with a piano player in the bar area, glowing candlelight, and beautiful farm-to-table meals. Or cozy up at Pietro’s Trattoria for the best Italian food you've ever had and amazing cocktails. I recommend making reservations here for Towne House or here for Pietro’s.

Sunday in Lodi, CA

Morning: Spa Bliss

Start your final day in pure relaxation at The Spa at Wine & Roses. You can get a spa day pass or book a service. With tranquil surroundings and personalized services, it’s the perfect way to wrap up your weekend.

Brunch & Farewell

Linger a little longer with brunch at the Towne House Restaurant, or swing by their general store Maison Lodi to grab a light lunch or snacks for the car. Their seasonal menu and serene setting make for a lovely final memory before heading out.

If you want to return with little ones in tow, you might also love this itinerary for a kid-friendly Lodi weekend.